Sometimes I feel like my taste in guys makes zero sense.
One minute I’m obsessing over someone who’s super sweet and stable, and the next I’m crushing on the guy who hasn’t answered a single text on time in his entire life.
It’s like my heart has multiple personalities and refuses to commit to one type. And honestly? I’m not even mad about it.
Why We Fall For The “Safe” Ones
There’s this comfort in liking someone who feels predictable in the best way.
The kind of crush where you already know they’ll check in, remember how you take your coffee, and be the one to offer you a ride home even when it’s out of their way. It’s grounding.
And after all the chaos of life, that can feel like a dream. But at the same time, I catch myself wondering if I want more than just stability.
Do I need fireworks, or is that just something movies have drilled into my head?
Because sometimes “safe” can slowly slip into “boring,” and then you’re left trying to figure out whether you’re craving actual passion or just being dramatic.
Why We Can’t Resist The “Wild” Ones
Then there’s the complete opposite. The crush that makes you feel like you’re on a rollercoaster every time your phone buzzes.
They’re unpredictable, exciting, and somehow always convincing you to do things you’d normally overthink to death. It’s fun. It’s messy. It’s a story you’ll be telling your friends over brunch.
But here’s the catch: as thrilling as it is, it can also leave you feeling… unsettled.
You never really know where you stand, and that tiny knot of anxiety in your stomach can be hard to ignore.
Still, the thrill has a way of pulling you back in, like maybe this time it’ll work out differently.
So maybe that’s the real question: do you lean toward the sweethearts, the rebels, the thinkers, or the charmers?
Or are you secretly into the free spirits who don’t fit into any box?
