Sometimes I look at my closet and just… sigh.
Like, how do I have so many clothes and still feel like nothing actually feels like me?
One day I’m all about oversized blazers and gold hoops, the next I want to live in vintage tees and messy hair.
It’s not that I don’t have style — it’s that I can’t decide which version of me I’m dressing for.
When Style Feels Like Pressure
You know that weird pressure to always “have your look together”?
Like, not just look good, but have it make sense — aesthetic, consistent, curated.
I’ve had days where I try on ten outfits, stare at myself, and think, “Who even am I trying to impress?”
It’s not even about fashion anymore, it’s about identity.
And social media doesn’t help.
Everyone looks so effortlessly polished, and I’m over here wondering if my outfit screams “trend victim” or “trying too hard.”
The funny thing is, the outfits that get me the most compliments are usually the ones I didn’t overthink.
Maybe that’s the trick — when you stop performing, your real style sneaks out.
Finding The Real Vibe
The older I get, the more I realize that “having style” isn’t about trends, or even taste — it’s about how in tune you are with yourself.
Some people need constant change to feel alive.
Others thrive in their rituals and go-to outfits that just work.
Neither is wrong.
I used to think I had to pick a side — edgy or timeless, experimental or classic.
But maybe it’s not that deep.
Maybe it’s more about knowing what energy you want to carry that day.
Like, do I want to feel bold or grounded?
Loud or subtle?
That choice says more than whatever’s trending on TikTok.
So tell me — if your closet could talk, what would it say about you?
Take this quiz and find out if you’re more of a trendsetter or a classic queen.









